by Ari Yares | Jul 9, 2026 | Parents as Systems, Preventive Parenting
Every summer, the same thing happens. School ends. The structure disappears. Parents look around at six or eight or ten unscheduled weeks and do what comes naturally: they start filling the space. The activity schedule. The camp. The playdates. The plan. The goal is...
by Ari Yares | May 12, 2026 | Emotions without Chaos
A parent asks: “How was school?” “Fine.” “What did you do?” “Nothing.” “Did anything interesting happen?” A shrug. Most parents who wonder why teens give one-word answers worry about the same things: Is...
by Ari Yares | Jun 28, 2017 | Emotions without Chaos, Preventive Parenting, The Innovative Dad Blog
A parent described a moment many families will recognize. Her daughter came home upset about something that happened at school. Before the daughter had finished the first sentence, the parent had already said, “It’s not a big deal. She probably...
by Ari Yares | Feb 9, 2026 | Jewish Time & Structure
Nothing dramatic is happening. Dinner is half-finished. Homework is still open. Bedtime is coming. No one is in crisis—but the clock is getting louder. You can feel the margin disappearing. No one woke up planning to argue. No one feels especially emotional. And yet,...
by Ari Yares | Jan 27, 2026 | The Innovative Dad Blog
When parents describe blowups at home, they often say the same thing:“It came out of nowhere.” A child melts down over something small.A teen explodes after seeming fine all day.A routine moment suddenly turns intense, fast. The usual conclusion is that the emotion is...
